
God intends for marriage to be a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, no matter how much our modern society makes and accepts excuses to ‘get out of it’. Especially what we call ‘irreconcilable differences’ or ‘we’re just growing apart’.
Malachi 2:16 (NKJV)
16 โFor the Lord God of Israel says
That He hates divorce,
For it covers oneโs garment with violence,โ
Says the Lord of hosts.
โTherefore take heed to your spirit,
That you do not deal treacherously.โ
Matthew 19:4-8 (NKJV)
4 And He answered and said to them, โHave you not read that He who [a]made them at the beginning โmade them male and female,โ 5 and said, โFor this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one fleshโ? 6 So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore, what God has joined together, let not man separate.โ7 They said to Him, โWhy then did Moses command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?โ 8 He said to them, โMoses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so.
God knows that no matter how much you love one another, that no two people will be the same after 10, 20, 30, 40, 50 plus years of marriage. It’s impossible. Yes, you will grow apart in some areas of your lives. But, that doesnโt have to come between you.
Think about this. If God expected the arranged marriages to last in the bible days, He expects us to stay with the spouse that we choose.
How can we be ministers of reconciliation for Godโs Kingdom if we canโt even reconcile the differences in our homes?
2 Corinthians 5:18-19 (NKJV)
18 Now all things are of God, who has reconciled us to Himself through Jesus Christ, and has given us the ministry of reconciliation, 19 that is, that God was in Christ reconciling the world to Himself, not [a]imputing their trespasses to them, and has committed to us the word of reconciliation.
In the words of Al Green, “Let’s stay together”
Here are a few more of my articles on Godly Marriage:
THE REAL, BOTTOM-LINE REASON MARRIAGES FAILโฆ
MARRIAGE: 3 WAYS TO TELL YOU WERE MEANT TO BE TOGETHERโฆ
WHEN GOD EXPECTS US TO FORGIVE ADULTERY (CHEATING ON GOD)โฆ
IS GOD IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU?
MARRIAGE ADVICE: ITโS YOUR DIFFERENCES THAT MAKE YOU A PERFECT FITโฆ
Godly Marriage: THE BLESSING IN WHEN YOUโRE NOT โIN THE MOODโ AT THE SAME TIMEโฆ
THE HOLINESS OF WELL-TIMED ROMANCE IN MARRIAGEโฆ
Godly Marriage: THE BLESSING IN WHEN YOUโRE NOT โIN THE MOODโ AT THE SAME TIMEโฆ
THERE WILL ALWAYS BE THINGS YOU HATE ABOUT THE PEOPLE YOU LOVEโฆ
GODLY MARRIAGE: HOW SEX IS SUBMISSION AND HONOR PERFECTED (Graphic but Holy)โฆ
ONLY โGODLY SEXโ IS GOOD SEXโฆ
GODLY MARRIAGE: YOU CANโT GET ROMANTIC WITH A HYMNALโฆ
(1) ONE AMAZING, POWERFUL, SIMPLE TIP TO REJUVENATE YOUR MARRIAGEโฆ#30yearsstrong
IF THE โBIG Oโ WAS TOO BIG (GODโS WISDOM)โฆ
BE BLESSTIFIED!






















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